Let me tell you about Mike and Steve…
Mike’s been texting this girl for weeks.
He’s looking for signals.
Analyzing emoji patterns.
Waiting for the perfect moment. Still hasn’t kissed her.
Steve saw a girl he liked last night, walked up, told her she was sexy, and took her home 3 hours later.
Guess which one is consistently getting laid?
The Signal Trap
Every day, millions of men are:
• Reading body language books
• Studying dating psychology
• Analyzing text messages
• Looking for “signs”
Meanwhile, women are sleeping with guys who simply take action.
The Harsh Reality
Here’s what actually happens when you wait for signals:
- She shows interest
- You wait for more confirmation
- She loses attraction
- Another man takes action
- You analyze what went wrong
- Repeat
Sound familiar?
Why Women Don’t Give Clear Signals
Simple truth: Women are programmed to be subtle.
Evolutionary psychology shows that women who were too obvious about sexual interest were often stigmatized. This created a survival instinct to be indirect.
Translation: She’s never going to hold up a sign saying “Please F*ck Me.”
The Action Paradox
Here’s the mind-bender: The less you look for signals, the more signals you’ll get.
Why?
• Confident men create attraction
• Action is attractive
• Hesitation kills desire
• Bold moves turn her on
The Signal Delusion
You think you’re being:
✓ Strategic
✓ Careful
✓ Smart
✓ Safe
She sees you as:
✗ Weak
✗ Uncertain
✗ Hesitant
✗ Scared
The Truth About Female Desire
Women don’t want a man who:
• Waits for permission
• Needs confirmation
• Seeks approval
• Looks for signs
They want a man who:
• Takes what he wants
• Leads with confidence
• Creates excitement
• Makes moves
The Cost of Waiting
Every time you wait for a signal:
- Sexual tension dies
- Another man moves in
- She loses interest
- Opportunities vanish
Think about it: How many times have you heard “I used to like you, but…”?
The Action Solution
Stop looking for signals. Start taking action:
See a girl you want?
→ Approach immediately
Having good conversation?
→ Touch her waist
Strong eye contact?
→ Kiss her
Getting physical?
→ Lead her home
No analysis. No waiting. No permission needed.
The Biology Factor
Female arousal doesn’t work like male arousal.
Men: See → Want → Act
Women: Act → Feel → Want
Your action creates her arousal. Not the other way around.
The Permission Myth
“But don’t I need to wait for permission?”
No. You need to:
- Make your move
- Read her response
- Adjust accordingly
- Escalate or back off
She’ll let you know if it’s not wanted. Trust me.
Real World Application
Instead of:
“Is she playing with her hair because she likes me?”
Think:
“I’m going to find out by making a move.”
Instead of:
“Does that emoji mean she’s interested?”
Think:
“I’m asking her out right now.”
The Power Move
Want to know if she’s interested?
Make a bold move and find out.
• It works if she’s interested
• It fails if she’s not
• Either way, you know
No more guessing. No more waiting. No more analysis.
The Success Formula
- See what you want
- Take action immediately
- Handle the response
- Repeat
That’s it. Everything else is mental masturbation.
The Final Choice
You can:
A) Wait for perfect signals that never come
B) Take action and get real results
While you’re looking for green lights:
• Other men are making moves
• Your opportunities are vanishing
• Your confidence is shrinking
• She’s getting bored
The harsh truth?
She’d rather reject your bold move than endure your endless hesitation.
Stop waiting for signals.
Start making moves.
Let her stop you if needed.
That’s how men who get laid operate.
She’s not showing interest? Do THIS next time you talk to her
Look…
If a woman shows no interest in talking to you, leaves you on read, and barely responds to your attempts at making conversation…
The reason is plain and obvious.
She’s not getting an “emotional high” from interacting with you.
Without that…
It’s literally impossible for her (or any girl) to be interested in talking to you.
And if she’s not willing to invest in a conversation…
…you can be assured that she’ll never want to go on a date with you… and much less to the bedroom.
Luckily, the solution is very simple.
There’s a secret flirting technique that can give a girl that “emotional high” she needs to get hooked on you.
This little-known flirting method can instantly spike her interest… arouse uncontrollable desire… and make her desperate to wrap her legs around you…
Even if she hated you at first… swore she would never date you… or only saw you as a friend.
In fact…
Thousands of guys are already using it to attract gorgeous, high-quality women into their lives (and bedrooms)… almost effortlessly.
No reason why it can’t do the same for you.
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Talk soon,
Matthew Coast