The numbers are shocking but true: Over 30% of men between 18-30 haven’t had sex in the past year. And many have never had sex at all.
We’re facing a crisis of male loneliness and sexual frustration that nobody wants to talk about. But it’s time to address the elephant in the room – why are so many young men struggling to connect sexually with women?
The Perfect Storm
Several factors have created this “virgin epidemic”:
- Dating apps have completely changed the game. While top-tier men have endless options, average guys get lost in the shuffle.
- Social skills have deteriorated. Between working from home, gaming, and social media, many men barely interact face-to-face anymore.
- Fear of rejection has paralyzed an entire generation. One awkward interaction can end up as a viral TikTok fail.
- Toxic advice keeps men stuck. “Focus on your purpose!” “Get six-pack abs!” Meanwhile, another sexless year goes by.
The Real Problem (That Nobody Talks About)
But here’s what’s really keeping men from getting laid: They fundamentally misunderstand female sexuality.
Most guys think women don’t want sex as much as men do. This leads to tiptoeing around attraction, waiting for “perfect moments,” and never making a move.
The truth? Women are literally built for sexual pleasure. The female body can experience multiple full-body orgasms. Does that sound like a being that doesn’t want sex?
This fundamental misunderstanding creates a vicious cycle:
- Man believes women don’t want sex
- Acts timid and non-sexual
- Woman gets bored and moves on
- Man takes this as proof women don’t want sex
- Repeat
Breaking Free From The Cycle
The solution isn’t complicated. But it requires completely rewiring how you think about female sexuality.
Women don’t need you to:
- Have a perfect body
- Make six figures
- Own a fancy car
- Master complex pickup techniques
They need you to:
- Understand they’re sexual beings
- Lead with confidence
- Create emotional sparks
- Take action without fear
The Simple Fix
Stop treating women like delicate flowers who need to be logically convinced into sex. Start treating them like the passionate, sexual creatures they are.
When you make this mental shift, everything changes:
- Conversations become charged with sexual tension
- Chemistry develops naturally
- Opportunities for intimacy present themselves
- Action replaces anxiety
The 30% statistic doesn’t have to be your story. But first, you need to kill the limiting belief that’s keeping you stuck.
Women want sex just as much as you do. Often more. The question is: Are you man enough to help them express it?
How small talk leads to rejection (and what to do instead)
A recent study suggests that…
A woman knows whether she’ll sleep with you or not…
…within the first 3 minutes of your initial interaction.
The unfortunate thing is…
Most guys waste that crucial time on boring small talk… that sparks no attraction.
“Where are you from?”
“What do you do for work?”
(…awkward silence…)
“Umm, do you like rock music?”
No woman enjoys a conversation like that.
And it immediately puts you on the highway to rejection.
Or just shoves you into the dreaded friend zone… with no hope for a second chance.
However, the good news is:
While most guys struggle to make conversations fun and engaging… (because they don’t know how)…
It’s actually much easier than you think.
In fact…
There’s a secret flirting method that can spice up any conversation instantly.
This flirting method can inject loads of sexual tension into any normal interaction… at the push of a button. (Online and offline).
And it turns women on so much, so fast… that…
Not only do they want to talk to you more and see you more often…
But they become eager to touch you, kiss you and let you take control of their bodies. (So all that pent-up sexual tension can be released.)
Just use THIS flirting technique next time you talk to a woman you like… and see what happens.
Since thousands of men are already using it to make gorgeous women lust after them…
I’m confident it can do the same for you.
My friend and top dating expert, Marni Kinrys, reveals everything about this flirting secret here:
Talk soon,
Matthew Coast