Have you ever wondered why women suddenly go cold after giving you their number?
It’s happening more than you think. In fact, research shows that 71% of women decide NOT to meet up with a guy based on his first few text messages.
Here’s the brutal truth: You’re probably falling into what I call “The Text Message Trap” – a series of seemingly innocent texting mistakes that secretly kill her attraction.
Let me ask you this:
• Do you send “checking in” texts like “hey” or “what’s up?”
• Do you wait days before texting her to avoid looking desperate?
• Do you try to keep conversations going by asking questions?
If you answered yes to any of these, you’re already in the trap.
The Dangerous Cycle
Here’s what typically happens:
- You meet a girl and get her number
- You send what you think is a normal text
- She responds, but seems less enthusiastic
- You try harder to keep her interest
- She becomes even more distant
- Eventually, she stops responding altogether
Sound familiar?
The Worst Part?
You’re probably making these mistakes without even realizing it. Every “innocent” text you send could be secretly labeling you as:
• Needy
• Boring
• Just Another Guy
• Not Worth Her Time
But here’s what most guys don’t realize…
The 72-Hour Window
Research shows you have approximately 72 hours after getting her number before her interest starts to naturally decline. Every text you send during this crucial window either:
• Builds attraction
• Or kills it completely
There is no middle ground.
The Good News
Once you understand how to avoid these traps, texting becomes almost embarrassingly easy. In fact, you only need three specific types of messages to:
• Keep her attention
• Build attraction
• Get her eager to meet up
Why “text conversations” Annoy Her… (and what to do instead)
Most men use text messages DEAD WRONG.
And they make one of these three common mistakes:
1. Totally boring her (and even annoying her) by sending dry, logical, and un-original texts.
2. Capture her attention but then spin their wheels going nowhere until the attraction fizzles out..
3. Or spend months playing “textual grabass” with her, all the while she’s f**king some other guy.
Here is a true but unfortunate fact:
When a woman gives you her phone number you have a small window of opportunity to turn that number into a meet-up, sex, or a relationship…
Every second that goes by… that window begins closing and your chances of ever getting her out begins to quickly disappear.
Here is another fact:
The next step can only come in person.
This is where the majority of men mess up.
You might think that having a handful of “text conversations” is helping your cause…
But it’s not.
There is a tiny little voice in every woman’s head that tells her “If he was “THE ONE” then it would have happened already…”
Women desperately want to believe that when there is “chemistry” they’ll be swept away…
This is why when you engage in “logical” back and forth conversation with a woman over text…
You’re kissing your chances good by. (Poof gone)
So what should you do instead?
It’s pretty simple.
After sending a couple “radar” texts just to get her thinking about you…
Each of your following texts should then be specifically designed to lead toward a meet-up.
My friend Rob actually have a specific sequence of texts he sends women to accomplish this over and over again.
He calls it “The Key Lock Sequence”
And we’ve put a video explaining exactly how it works
==> Discover the “Key Lock Sequence” now
The video also explains an “attraction loophole” you can exploit to your advantage.
Knowing how to take advantage of this loophole will lead to more dates, and more women back to your bedroom.
It will also make damn sure you don’t text your way into the friend zone.
Talk soon,
Matthew Coast
P.S. Have you ever spent months texting a girl only to realize you were just her “text buddy”?
This video explains why: